# Vulnerability is the key to trust Created: 04-04-2022 09:33 If a person trusts you - they are not afraid of sharing imperfections. They are eager to show if something is not alright. To show their vulnerability. It doesn't work with everyone. Before the enemy's eyes, we hide everything that can possibly hurt. Every weakness exposed is jeopardizing our status. Moreover, it can be a target for a foe to strike. With friends, it should be the opposite. If our friends are aware of our weaknesses they know where we need our backs covered. You cover my back I cover yours. That's how we build trust. Can you rely on someone who doesn't need your help? Can you trust a friend who doesn't trust you? Probably you can, to some extent. But real trust and friendship can hardly be built this way. Mutual trust is mutual. It is based on the vulnerability of each other revealed both ways. If I know that something can hurt you - I'll do my best to protect you. And I will share my weak sport so you know where I need my back covered by my friend. And I expect you to do the same. ## Corporate anti-trust cultures This is the reason corporate cultures can become toxic. If your community is status-sensitive - people tend to hide their weak spots and mistakes. People don't ask for help and try to avoid any possible risks.